Why Nice Guys Finish Last & How to Attract a High Quality Partner — Dr. Robert Glover | Ep. 66

Today I sit down with Dr. Robert Glover.

Dr. Glover is a therapist, coach, speaker, and educator who is a relationship expert with over 40 years of professional experience. The author of the groundbreaking No More Mr. Nice Guy and the best-selling Dating Essentials for Men, Dr. Glover has helped thousands of men worldwide transform their lives and get what they want in relationships, sex, and career.

The conversation explores the concept of covert contracts, where nice guys have hidden expectations that often lead to resentment. Dr. Glover emphasizes the importance of healthy self-interest and making oneself a priority.

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00:00 Introduction

01:30 The Definition of a Nice Guy

14:27 Dr. Glover's Background and Early Years

18:29 The Problems with Being a Nice Guy

21:54 Understanding Covert Contracts

26:15 Practicing Healthy Self-Interest

30:52 Making Yourself a Priority

41:18 Unexpected Positive Outcomes

43:14 The Transformative Power of Mindfulness Practices

49:18 The Value of Men's Groups and Communities

56:29 Embracing Masculine and Feminine Energy in Relationships

01:02:19 Understanding Emotional Statements

01:09:47 Finding a New Understanding

01:13:01 The Impact of Technology on Relationships

01:19:07 Building Real Connections

01:31:21 The Power of Small Acts of Kindness

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